Journal entry by Al Negstad — 20 minutes ago
When Joanne entered hospice...thinking she had three or four months, not only 23 days...she had what she called "a bucket list of messages" she wanted to deliver before she died. All were completed. Her message to my family how much she had enjoyed being included and there was mutual admiration.
A pattern developed when we, or I singly, visit the "Little House On the Prairie," of gathering all who are available for dinner at a restaurant . Joanne thoroughly enjoyed those meals, connecting with her sisters-in-laws and other family members. When she wasn't present I'd call her afterward and report on the gathering and process the events of the day.
Tonight there were 10, at the table, with 3, home for the holidays. The ultimate extrovert, Joanne, would have been delighted. M gave loaves of her freshly backed cardamom bread, which Joanne loved. Three of my parents four children's families were represented. We all experienced the presence of absence, but it's good to be together.
Blessings,
Al
A pattern developed when we, or I singly, visit the "Little House On the Prairie," of gathering all who are available for dinner at a restaurant . Joanne thoroughly enjoyed those meals, connecting with her sisters-in-laws and other family members. When she wasn't present I'd call her afterward and report on the gathering and process the events of the day.
Tonight there were 10, at the table, with 3, home for the holidays. The ultimate extrovert, Joanne, would have been delighted. M gave loaves of her freshly backed cardamom bread, which Joanne loved. Three of my parents four children's families were represented. We all experienced the presence of absence, but it's good to be together.
Blessings,
Al
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