Journal entry by Joanne Negstad — Sep 5, 2018
When I retired in 2007, I suggested to Joanne, that we should travel to Iowa to visit friends who'd often come to see us while I worked weekends. That is what we did. The first stop was in Decorah to see J, Joanne's college roommate. From there we drove south to to see my Marine buddy and his wife near Davenport, E & MJ, on their farm. Next it was on to Iowa City, to see K, with whom I'd worked for 8 years at Zion, Davenport, and K's wife B. All of these folks are mutual friends of Joanne and me.
So, not wanting to abandon this tradition, nor the connection with these important people, I'm now with E & MJ. After lunch in Decorah with J, I continued the accustomed trip solo. The route is practiced and familiar. Anyone who thinks that IA is not scenic likely has not visited eastern IA. Even in the steady rain it was a pretty drive today. Of course it was lonely as I passed the familiar landmarks without Joanne's presence..."see the...look at that...there's a horse and buggy."
Nevertheless, here I am, and I'm glad I came. As C. S. Lewis said that absence is everywhere and no place more that any other. Therefore, to be with those who loved her, grieve her loss and willingly talk about her is a gift. Yes, I am fortunate.
Blessings,
Al
So, not wanting to abandon this tradition, nor the connection with these important people, I'm now with E & MJ. After lunch in Decorah with J, I continued the accustomed trip solo. The route is practiced and familiar. Anyone who thinks that IA is not scenic likely has not visited eastern IA. Even in the steady rain it was a pretty drive today. Of course it was lonely as I passed the familiar landmarks without Joanne's presence..."see the...look at that...there's a horse and buggy."
Nevertheless, here I am, and I'm glad I came. As C. S. Lewis said that absence is everywhere and no place more that any other. Therefore, to be with those who loved her, grieve her loss and willingly talk about her is a gift. Yes, I am fortunate.
Blessings,
Al
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