Introvert!

     A few years ago Susan Cain wrote a book titled Quiet: The Power of  Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking. Both Joanne and I read the book and had some excellent discussions about it. That book came to mind this morning when I participated in Grace University Lutheran's virtual men's breakfast via ZOOM. Asked how I was doing I jocularly said "I've been waiting my whole life for this."  It became clear from the comments of others at this breakfast that isolation is much harder for extroverts.

     While my comment was really flip it is true that my introversion makes this pandemic situation much easier for me than for many others. A subscription to The Washington Post online provides some excellent material. Under the rubric What Day Is It?, a daily reminder of what day of the week it is, very helpful in retirement, there are suggestions for coping with isolation. For example in today's post: Understand the difference between solitude and loneliness.  "If you use that time where you're alone in ways that bring you joy and peace, then that solitude can have a really positive effect on your life" Vivek H, Murphy, the former U.S. surgeon general told The Post in May. "But if that time alone makes you feel like something is wrong with you--say, you fear you're missing out--it can be destructive."

      "...brings you joy and peace..." Yes, that describes my experience being alone. More from The Post "Embrace the humble phone call. Generations have figured out how to stay entertained for hours on the phone. When video glitches start draining you, opt for a catch-up call with one person at a time." Yea and verily! That's the essence of my lifeline, everyday 1-3 calls minimum. Inevitably the callee says "Thank you for calling!"  It's very enriching.

      The reality that lies behind this is that I am really blessed. The Little House on the Prairie near my land, garage and Joanne's cemetery gives me opportunities few others are afforded. Adequate financial resources eliminates worry. Good health and eyesight allow significant physical activity and the possibility of extended reading. Reliable memory allows independent living....and much more. For all of this I am profoundly grateful!

Takk for alt,

Al

                                                   The pond across the street froze last night.