Friday, October 23, 2020

Finding hope.

         After days of overcast the sun is out and perhaps some snow will melt.  Weather forecast is for 60% chance of snow the next two days. This forecast does not suggest how much might accumulate. Sunshine is welcome after a spate of cloudy days.

       In the days of profound grief after Joanne died a friend frequently asked "Where do you find hope?" Today in a telephone conversation she suggested blogging about hope. During those first bitter days I remember saying that hope was found in relationships. That remains true today. Lisa's daily calls allows me to "share my day". That's hope inspiring. Lars 'face times' regularly so I get to see the family, more hope inspiration. Phone calls with other family members and friends connect me to a web of relationships which fosters hope.

      It was a helpful reminder, that suggestion to think about hope. Thinking about it helps clarify how different life is now, in the land of grief, compared with those first months after Joanne died. My life has achieved a healthy stasis. Small routines give structure to my life and connecting with others via phone and email assures me that I am not alone nor forgotten, There is so much for which to be grateful!

Takk for alt

Al

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