Though we lived together for 53 years there was one aspect of my character that Joanne never fully understood. The old saying "differents attract, marry and frustrate each other" was partially true in our case. Joanne was such an extrovert that on personality tests she'd have zero in the introvert column. On the other hand, I'm clearly an introvert. Years our difference regarding social events convinced Joanne that I'd be in danger of becoming a social isolate without her.
This is clearly not the case. People are necessary for me. Also alone time is important where I can regain my energy. The OFH is helpful. There are many here whom I enjoy. But, when my people bladder is full, I repair to my apartment to recharge alone. Being alone is not synonymous with loneliness. From The Little House I regularly "reach out and touch someone" as the old phone adds had it. Most days I call someone just to chat. One of the sad realities of my age is that many of the persons with whom I'd often talk on the phone have died. These connections with others mainly require me to eschew passivity and actively reach out.
Takk for alt,
Al
One hundred and two year old, MonaMae blowing out her birthday candles.
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